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Before applying to the Family Court in most private children cases, you are usually required to attend a MIAM — a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. Many litigants in person misunderstand this stage or assume it is optional. It is not. The Family Procedure Rules require applicants to consider mediation before issuing proceedings, unless a valid exemption applies. This guide explains what a MIAM actually involves, when it is required, what exemptions exist (including domestic abuse and urgency), and how mediation fits into the wider Child Arrangements Programme. It also outlines when mediation may be unsuitable and how courts view parties who refuse to engage without good reason. Understanding this stage properly can prevent delay, protect your credibility, and help you approach court strategically.