1. Child arrangements (lives with / spends time with)

  • Child Arrangements Order (Children Act 1989)

    A formal court order setting out where a child lives and how they spend time with each parent

  • Child Arrangements Order (Children Act 1989)

    A formal court order setting out where a child lives and how they spend time with each parent.

    Child carrying an overnight bag between rooms, illustrating living and contact arrangements following parental separation

Technical Matter Guide

Law and procedure checked 22 September 2026

Child Arrangements Orders: what the court is actually deciding

A Child Arrangements Order is a section 8 Children Act 1989 order regulating with whom a child is to live, spend time or otherwise have contact, and when those arrangements are to take place. The legal question is not what arrangement is fairest to the adults: it is what arrangement best serves the individual child's welfare. [1]

2026 procedural alert: Private-law children procedure is currently changing. Some courts continue under the standard Child Arrangements Programme in PD12B, while specified court locations operate the Child Focused Model under PD36Z and PD12B (Pilot). The Government has announced national rollout, but implementation is phased. Always check which procedural model applies to the court dealing with the case. [2] [3]
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Procedure and where this matter appears in the chronology

Before proceedings

The court expects parties to consider non-court dispute resolution where it is safe and appropriate. In many cases an applicant must attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, or rely on a valid exemption, before issuing a C100 application. Domestic abuse, child-protection concerns and urgency are among circumstances that may be relevant to an exemption. [5]

An application for a Child Arrangements Order is ordinarily made using Form C100. Where allegations of domestic abuse or harm are relevant, the safeguarding information provided to the court becomes particularly important. [6]

There are now two important procedural routes

Standard Child Arrangements Programme

In areas operating under PD12B, the usual route can include:

  • application and gatekeeping;
  • Cafcass safeguarding enquiries;
  • First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA);
  • case-management directions;
  • fact-finding where necessary;
  • section 7 welfare reporting where directed;
  • Dispute Resolution Appointment; and
  • a final welfare hearing where agreement is not reached.

The actual route depends on the issues in the case. [2]

Child Focused Model / PD36Z pilot

In the court locations currently covered by PD36Z, the standard PD12B procedure is modified. The model is more investigative and front-loaded and can involve:

  • early safeguarding gatekeeping;
  • information gathering and assessment;
  • a Child Impact Report;
  • earlier engagement with the child's voice;
  • targeted fact-finding where required; and
  • a Decision Hearing rather than simply reproducing the traditional CAP sequence.

Check PD36Z for the current participating court locations. [3]

Related procedural Matters

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Evidence and welfare analysis

A child arrangements case becomes much clearer when the evidence is organised around the questions the court actually has to decide rather than around every dispute that has occurred between the adults.

The welfare checklist as an evidence map

Welfare factor What it may require the court to understand
Wishes and feelings The child's ascertainable wishes and feelings, considered in light of age and understanding. This does not mean asking the child to choose between parents.
Physical, emotional and educational needs Schooling, health, SEND, stability, emotional security, routines, relationships and day-to-day care.
Effect of change The impact of changing home, school, care pattern, contact frequency, travel, household or established relationships.
Age, background and characteristics The child's individual circumstances rather than assumptions about children generally.
Harm Harm already suffered and risk of future physical, emotional or psychological harm.
Parenting capacity Each relevant adult's ability to meet the child's needs, including practical and emotional needs.
Range of powers Whether a different, narrower or protective order could meet the child's needs more proportionately.

Evidence that is often more useful than volume

  • the current and previous relevant court orders;
  • a concise chronology of material events;
  • school, health or professional evidence where genuinely relevant;
  • evidence of the child's established care pattern and routine;
  • practical evidence about travel, school journeys and handovers;
  • clearly contextualised communications where they prove a material welfare issue;
  • evidence supporting or responding to allegations of harm;
  • a specific and workable proposal for future arrangements.

2026 Court of Appeal: D (Change of Circumstances: Domestic Abuse Allegations)

D [2026] EWCA Civ 969 is particularly important for child arrangements cases involving a proposed change of the child's home or settled routine.

The Court of Appeal criticised a welfare analysis that failed adequately to address the effect of the proposed change in the child's circumstances, including leaving the family home and current school.

The case is also a strong reminder that the statutory welfare checklist is not a ceremonial list. The evidence and judgment must actually engage with the material factors that matter in the individual child's case.

Read D [2026] EWCA Civ 969 →

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Safeguarding, domestic abuse and Cafcass

Allegations are not findings — but allegations can require risk management

Where domestic abuse or other harm is raised, PD12J requires the court to consider the issue throughout the proceedings and to determine what factual and welfare issues need to be resolved. A separate fact-finding hearing is not automatic: the court asks whether findings are necessary and proportionate to the welfare decision it must make. [7]

Patterns can matter more than isolated incidents

In Re H-N and Others (Children) [2021] EWCA Civ 448, the Court of Appeal emphasised that coercive and controlling behaviour may require the court to understand an overall pattern rather than treating every allegation as an isolated event. Equally, fact-finding should remain focused on what is necessary to assess future welfare and risk. [case]

Cafcass can assess risk. The court determines disputed facts.

In D [2026] EWCA Civ 969, the Court of Appeal addressed a section 7 report in which disputed domestic-abuse allegations had effectively influenced the recommendation as though they had occurred.

Cafcass observations and risk assessment may provide important evidence and professional analysis. But disputed allegations are not transformed into judicial findings simply because one account appears more compelling to a professional. Findings, where required, are for the court.

Where abuse is established

PD12J requires the court to consider the effect of domestic abuse on the child, the parent with whom the child is living, the child's relationship with each parent, future risk, and the parents' capacity to understand the impact of the abuse. The court must explain how established abuse has influenced its child-arrangements decision. [7]

This means that “contact” is not an abstract principle detached from safety. The form, frequency, supervision, conditions or absence of direct contact must be assessed through the individual child's welfare and risk.

Repeated applications and section 91(14)

Where future applications themselves may cause harm, harassment, oppressive behaviour or form part of continuing coercive control, the court can consider a section 91(14) order. PD12Q describes this as a protective filter rather than an absolute bar on future applications. [8]

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What the order can regulate — and why the wording matters

A workable order may need to address more than alternate weekends

Depending on the dispute and what is proportionate, arrangements may need to deal with:

  • where the child lives during term time;
  • weekday and weekend arrangements;
  • school holidays and half terms;
  • Christmas, birthdays and other significant occasions;
  • collection and return arrangements;
  • direct and indirect contact;
  • supervision or other safeguards where required;
  • travel and practical arrangements;
  • any staged or transitional arrangement.

But greater detail is not automatically better. The no-order principle and proportionality remain relevant. An order should solve the welfare problem the court actually needs to solve rather than attempt to regulate every future parental disagreement.

A “lives with” provision can have legal consequences beyond the timetable

Parental responsibility Section 12 contains provisions about parental responsibility where a person is named in a Child Arrangements Order as somebody with whom the child is to live. The consequences differ depending on whether the person is a parent, guardian or other person.
Spends-time provisions In some circumstances the court may also consider or confer parental responsibility in connection with a spends-time/contact provision.
Child's surname Where a qualifying lives-with Child Arrangements Order is in force, section 13 restricts changing the child's surname without the required consent or permission.
Foreign travel Section 13 also regulates removal from the United Kingdom. A person named as someone with whom the child lives has a statutory ability to remove the child for less than one month, subject to the order and other applicable restrictions.

These consequences are one reason why the exact wording of a “lives with” order should not be treated as merely cosmetic. [9] [10]

If the arrangements later stop working

The procedural question is often whether the existing order needs to be varied because circumstances have changed, or enforced because the order remains appropriate but is not being followed. Sometimes the issues overlap.

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Key authorities, practical principles and next steps

Reported cases do not provide a formula that determines the result of a different family's case. Their value is in identifying legal principles and illustrating how courts approach particular problems.

Re G (Children) (Residence: Same-Sex Partner) [2006] UKHL 43

A leading welfare authority. Biological or parental status may be an important factor, but the governing principle is the individual child's welfare; adult status does not displace paramountcy.

Read the judgment →

MK v CK [2011] EWCA Civ 793

Useful when considering shared care and labels. The Court of Appeal stressed the significance of the practical arrangements for care rather than simply the label attached to the order.

Read the judgment →

Re C (A Child) (Suspension of Contact) [2011] EWCA Civ 521

An important authority on the court's approach before ending direct parent-child contact. It stresses the need to consider realistic alternatives and the longer-term welfare consequences. It does not create an automatic entitlement to contact and must be read with the modern safeguarding framework, including PD12J.

Read the judgment →

Re W (Children) [2012] EWCA Civ 999

Reviews the principles surrounding direct contact and the court's positive obligations to consider steps capable of maintaining or restoring an important parent-child relationship, always subject to the child's welfare.

Read the judgment →

Re M (Children) [2017] EWCA Civ 2164

Illustrates the need for a court to examine realistic welfare options carefully before concluding that direct contact cannot take place, while assessing the particular consequences for the individual children.

Read the judgment →

Re H-N and Others (Children) [2021] EWCA Civ 448

Essential reading where domestic abuse is alleged. The Court of Appeal addressed patterns of coercive and controlling behaviour, the purpose of fact-finding and the need for allegations determined by the court to be relevant to future welfare and risk.

Read the judgment →

D (Change of Circumstances: Domestic Abuse Allegations) [2026] EWCA Civ 969

A major current authority for child-arrangements work. It reinforces the need to conduct the welfare analysis properly, including the effect of changing a child's circumstances, and makes clear that professional risk assessment does not replace judicial fact-finding where material allegations remain disputed.

Read the judgment →

Useful questions for a litigant in person to answer

  • What order is currently in force?
  • What exactly is the court being asked to decide now?
  • What arrangements are operating in practice?
  • What is working for the child and what is not?
  • What material welfare concern is supported by what evidence?
  • Are allegations disputed, admitted or already the subject of findings?
  • What are the child's established routines and important relationships?
  • What would change if your proposed order were made?
  • What practical arrangement are you actually asking the court to approve?
  • Is the proposal safe, workable and specific enough to operate outside the courtroom?

Primary sources and official guidance

  1. Children Act 1989 — sections 1, 7, 8, 12, 13 and related provisions.
  2. Practice Direction 12B — Child Arrangements Programme
  3. Practice Direction 36Z / PD12B Pilot — Child Focused Model
  4. Courts and Tribunals Bill — current Parliamentary status — includes proposed repeal of the parental-involvement presumption.
  5. GOV.UK — Applying for a child arrangements court order
  6. HMCTS — Form C100
  7. Practice Direction 12J — Child Arrangements & Domestic Abuse
  8. Practice Direction 12Q — Section 91(14) Orders
  9. Children and Families Act 2014 — amendments introducing the modern Child Arrangements Order framework.
  10. GOV.UK — Child Arrangements Orders and parental responsibility
  11. Family Procedure Rules Part 12 — proceedings relating to children.
  12. Cafcass — role in private-law proceedings

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