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Coercive Control Is Not “High Conflict”: How Legal Technology Could Help Victims Build Watertight Evidence

May 19, 2026/0 Comments/in 4. Domestic Abuse & Safeguarding Cluster, Coercive Control/by jessica susan hill

Coercive control is one of the most misunderstood forms of domestic abuse in the family justice system. Too often, victims and protective parents are expected to prove a pattern of fear, domination, surveillance, financial pressure, emotional abuse and post-separation control through tools designed for isolated incidents. The result is predictable: the pattern is fragmented, the abuse is minimised, and the protective parent is too often labelled “high conflict”. But coercive control has structure. It leaves traces. It can be evidenced. And with careful, ethical use of legal technology, litigants in person may finally have a better way to organise the truth.

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Coercive Control Is Not “High Conflict”: How Technology Could Help Victims Build the Evidence the System Keeps Missing

For too long, coercive and controlling behaviour has been misunderstood, minimised, fragmented, and dismissed — particularly in private law children proceedings where one parent is trying to prove a pattern of abuse while the other presents the case as “just conflict”.

That has to change.

Coercive control is not a bad argument. It is not ordinary relationship breakdown. It is not two difficult people failing to co-parent. It is a pattern of domination, fear, isolation, degradation, surveillance, financial pressure, emotional manipulation, litigation abuse, threats, intimidation and control.

And patterns can be proved.

The question is whether victims — especially litigants in person — are being given the tools to prove them properly.

The central problem

The family court often asks victims to present coercive control through tools designed for isolated incidents. That is a structural problem.

A Scott Schedule may ask: “What happened? When? Where? What is your evidence?”

But coercive control often asks a different question:

What was the pattern, how did it escalate, what was the impact, how did it affect the children, and how did the perpetrator use systems, money, communication, parenting arrangements, technology, threats or court proceedings to maintain control?

Why coercive control is so hard to prove

Coercive control cases rarely arrive neatly packaged. Victims often have years of WhatsApp messages, emails, screenshots, school communications, police logs, medical notes, bank records, social media material, location issues, parenting handover disputes, threatening messages, apparently “polite” controlling emails, and a history of being worn down.

Looked at separately, each incident can be minimised:

  • “It was only a message.”
  • “It was only a disagreement about contact.”
  • “It was only about money.”
  • “It was only one argument.”
  • “There was no physical violence.”
  • “The police took no further action.”
  • “The CPS did not charge.”

That is precisely how coercive control disappears inside the justice system. It is broken into fragments until the pattern is lost.

Technology, used carefully and ethically, could help put that pattern back together.

1: The legislation — what the law actually says

Serious Crime Act 2015, section 76

The criminal offence of controlling or coercive behaviour in an intimate or family relationship is contained in section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015.

In broad terms, the prosecution must prove that:

  • the defendant repeatedly or continuously engaged in behaviour towards another person;
  • the defendant and victim were personally connected at the time;
  • the behaviour had a serious effect on the victim;
  • the defendant knew or ought to have known that the behaviour would have a serious effect.

Domestic Abuse Act 2021

The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 created a statutory definition of domestic abuse which includes:

  • physical or sexual abuse;
  • violent or threatening behaviour;
  • controlling or coercive behaviour;
  • economic abuse;
  • psychological, emotional or other abuse.

Post-separation abuse

The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 also amended the controlling or coercive behaviour offence so that, from 5 April 2023, it can apply to partners, ex-partners and family members even where they no longer live together. The updated Home Office statutory guidance explains this important change in the Controlling or Coercive Behaviour Statutory Guidance Framework.

Maximum sentence

The CPS confirms that the offence can be tried in the magistrates’ court or Crown Court and carries a maximum penalty of five years’ imprisonment. See the CPS prosecution guidance on controlling or coercive behaviour.

The uncomfortable truth: low charge rates are being weaponised in family court

One of the most damaging arguments victims face in private law children proceedings is this:

“If it was really abuse, the police would have charged him.”

That argument is wrong.

A decision by police or CPS not to charge does not mean abuse did not happen. It may mean the evidential test was not met at that stage. It may mean the evidence was not gathered properly. It may mean the victim could not safely support a prosecution. It may mean the case was misunderstood as incidents rather than a course of conduct.

The Office for National Statistics recorded 49,557 offences of coercive control in England and Wales in the year ending March 2025. Yet Women’s Aid, relying on ONS criminal justice data, reports that in the year ending December 2024 there were 1,299 defendant proceedings and 853 offenders convicted of controlling or coercive behaviour. See Women’s Aid: Coercive Control.

That gap matters. It shows why family courts must be very careful before treating “no charge” or “no conviction” as proof that the alleged abuse was false or irrelevant.

2: The statistics — the justice gap in coercive control cases

  • 49,557 offences of coercive control were recorded by police in England and Wales in the year ending March 2025, according to the ONS.
  • 45,310 offences were recorded in the year ending March 2024, showing an increase in recorded coercive control offences.
  • 1,299 defendant proceedings for controlling or coercive behaviour were reported for the year ending December 2024 by Women’s Aid, citing ONS data.
  • 853 offenders were convicted of controlling or coercive behaviour in the year ending December 2024, according to the same Women’s Aid summary.
  • The CPS has reported year-on-year increases in charges and said that almost 5,000 coercive control offences were charged last year. See the CPS update: Rise in coercive control charges marks a decade of progress.

The point: coercive control is being recorded. It is being reported. It is increasingly being charged. But there remains a major gap between lived experience, police recording, prosecution and conviction.

What does it take to get a conviction for coercive control?

In a criminal case, the prosecution must prove the offence beyond reasonable doubt. That is a high standard. It should be. A criminal conviction can remove liberty, affect employment, trigger safeguarding consequences, and lead to restraining orders or other protective measures.

But the high standard of proof does not mean coercive control is impossible to prove. It means the evidence must be properly built.

The CPS guidance makes clear that prosecutors should look at the pattern, the serious effect on the victim, the relationship context, previous allegations, overlapping offences, and all relevant material. That is where many cases fail before they ever reach trial: the evidential architecture is not properly assembled.

3: What the prosecution needs to prove

1. Repeated or continuous behaviour

The case cannot usually be built on one isolated act. The evidence must show a repeated or continuous course of conduct.

2. Personal connection

The parties must be personally connected under the statutory framework. This can include current partners, former partners, spouses, civil partners, relatives, and people who have or have had parental relationships in relation to the same child.

3. Serious effect

The behaviour must have a serious effect. This may include causing the victim to fear violence on at least two occasions, or causing serious alarm or distress which has a substantial adverse effect on day-to-day activities.

4. Knowledge

The defendant must know, or ought to know, that the behaviour would have a serious effect.

5. Public interest

The CPS must also consider whether prosecution is in the public interest under the Code for Crown Prosecutors.

What does a conviction mean in real terms?

A conviction for controlling or coercive behaviour is serious. It is not a minor label. It is a criminal finding that the offender repeatedly or continuously engaged in abusive behaviour which had a serious effect on the victim.

Depending on the sentence and circumstances, it may result in:

  • a custodial sentence, suspended sentence or community order;
  • a restraining order;
  • probation supervision;
  • MAPPA management in qualifying cases;
  • family court safeguarding consequences;
  • impact on child arrangements;
  • employment and professional consequences;
  • immigration, housing, firearms, DBS or regulatory consequences depending on the facts.

In February 2025, it was reported that offenders serving sentences of at least 12 months for controlling or coercive behaviour would be automatically managed under Multi-Agency Public Protection Arrangements. See The Guardian: Coercive control to be put on par with other types of domestic abuse.

4: Children are not “witnesses” only — they can be victims

This is one of the most important legal developments protective parents need to understand.

Section 3 of the Domestic Abuse Act 2021 recognises that a child is a victim of domestic abuse if the child sees, hears or experiences the effects of the abuse and is related to the victim or perpetrator.

The CPS confirmed in 2022 that children affected by domestic abuse should be treated as victims, regardless of whether they were present during violent incidents. See CPS: Children classed as domestic abuse victims under new guidance.

This matters in family court because coercive control is not only about the adult victim. Children may be harmed by:

  • living in fear or tension;
  • being used as messengers;
  • being exposed to threats, shouting, surveillance or humiliation;
  • seeing one parent degraded or controlled;
  • being used as leverage in contact arrangements;
  • being manipulated into rejecting or policing the other parent;
  • having their routines, schooling, healthcare or emotional security disrupted;
  • being directly controlled, monitored or emotionally pressured.

The legal point: where children see, hear or experience the effects of domestic abuse, their welfare analysis must not treat them as bystanders. They may be victims in their own right.

The family court problem: coercive control is still too often mislabelled as “high conflict”

The phrase “high conflict” can be dangerous when used lazily.

High conflict suggests mutuality. It implies two adults locked in reciprocal hostility. But coercive control is not mutual conflict. It is an imbalance of power.

The victim may appear distressed, emotional, disorganised, angry or hypervigilant. The perpetrator may appear calm, articulate and reasonable. That does not make the victim unstable or the perpetrator safe. In some cases, it may be part of the pattern.

The Domestic Abuse Commissioner’s “Everyday Business” report refers back to the Ministry of Justice Harm Panel and the need for a family court response that properly identifies and responds to domestic abuse in private law children proceedings.

The 2026 House of Commons Library briefing on child arrangements and domestic abuse records that it has been estimated that around 60% to 90% of child arrangements cases in the family court feature allegations of domestic abuse.

That should stop everyone in their tracks.

5: Why Scott Schedules can fail coercive control cases

Scott Schedules can be useful where the court needs a concise list of specific allegations. But they can be inadequate where the central allegation is a pattern of control.

A coercive control case needs more than a list of incidents. It needs:

  • a chronological timeline;
  • a pattern analysis;
  • a behaviour map;
  • a child impact section;
  • a post-separation abuse section;
  • a technology abuse section;
  • a financial/economic abuse section;
  • a litigation abuse section;
  • a cross-referenced evidence index;
  • a clear explanation of serious effect.

The court needs to see the architecture of control, not just the bricks.

Where legal technology could be groundbreaking

This is where properly designed legal technology could transform the evidential position for victims and protective parents.

Technology should not be used to invent allegations, exaggerate claims, coach witnesses or replace legal judgment. But it can be used to organise evidence, detect patterns, identify gaps, build chronologies, extract dates, categorise behaviours, cross-reference exhibits, and help litigants in person present their evidence coherently.

That is not a gimmick. That is access to justice.

6: The “watertight case” evidence architecture

A properly prepared coercive control evidence bundle should aim to show:

1. Pattern

What repeated behaviours occurred over time?

2. Escalation

Did the behaviour intensify after separation, after court proceedings, after new relationships, after police involvement, or after boundaries were set?

3. Tactics

Was the alleged perpetrator using money, children, communication, threats, surveillance, immigration status, housing, religion, family networks, professional status, court proceedings or technology to maintain control?

4. Impact

What was the effect on the adult victim’s day-to-day life, mental health, work, parenting, finances, safety, autonomy and decision-making?

5. Child impact

What did the children see, hear or experience? How did the behaviour affect their emotional security, behaviour, schooling, health, contact arrangements or relationship with either parent?

6. Corroboration

What independent material supports the account? Police logs, GP records, school emails, third-party messages, photographs, bank records, social care records, call logs, location data, screenshots, court orders, admissions, apology messages, or patterns in communications?

7. Serious effect

How does the evidence show fear, alarm, distress or a substantial adverse effect on ordinary daily life?

How AI and legal tech can help litigants in person prepare

Most litigants in person do not lose because they have no evidence. Many lose because their evidence is disorganised, overwhelming, mislabelled, emotionally presented, or not linked clearly to the legal test.

AI and legal technology can help by turning chaos into structure.

For example, technology can assist with:

  • extracting dates from messages and documents;
  • building a master chronology;
  • identifying repeated themes such as threats, isolation, financial control, surveillance or child-related manipulation;
  • separating direct evidence from interpretation;
  • linking each allegation to exhibits;
  • identifying missing documents;
  • preparing issue-based evidence indexes;
  • summarising long communication threads;
  • creating court-friendly tables;
  • spotting escalation points;
  • mapping post-separation abuse;
  • preparing focused questions for legal advice or direct access counsel.

7: Technology can help — but it must be used safely

Victims and protective parents should be careful before uploading sensitive evidence into any online tool.

Before using AI or legal tech with domestic abuse evidence, consider:

  • Does the tool store your data?
  • Can you delete your data?
  • Is the material confidential?
  • Are children’s names, addresses, schools or medical details included?
  • Is there a live court order restricting publication or disclosure?
  • Could the other party access your device, cloud account or email?
  • Do you need to redact documents first?
  • Are you accidentally sharing third-party personal data?
  • Are you preserving the original evidence and metadata?

Technology should support safeguarding. It should never create a new risk.

Recent developments show the law is moving — but the evidence problem remains

The last few years have shown increasing legal and public recognition of coercive control.

The CPS updated its guidance on controlling or coercive behaviour in 2025. The updated CPS prosecution guidance specifically addresses evidential considerations, gathering evidence, case building, suspect-centric approaches, charge selection, ancillary orders and what should happen where there is a decision not to charge.

The Home Office statutory guidance recognises that controlling or coercive behaviour may include economic abuse, technology-facilitated abuse, harassment, stalking and other related harms.

The CPS has also recognised the importance of emerging and complex forms of abuse. In 2026, reporting on new CPS guidance highlighted issues including honour-based abuse, dowry abuse, immigration-related exploitation, spiritual abuse and the need to identify emerging patterns of abuse. See The Guardian: CPS issues new guidance on honour-based and dowry abuse.

At the same time, public reporting continues to show how poorly coercive control may be understood by juries, professionals and wider society. See, for example, The Guardian: “But he didn’t hit you, did he?”, which explored the difficulty of presenting coercive control inside a courtroom.

The law is moving. But the evidential method has not caught up quickly enough.

For litigants in person: how to start preparing a coercive control case

If you are a litigant in person trying to show coercive control in family court, do not start by writing a long emotional statement. Start by building the evidence structure.

8: Practical checklist for protective parents and litigants in person

Step 1: Create a master chronology

List events in date order. Keep each entry factual. Include the date, what happened, who was present, evidence available, and impact.

Step 2: Preserve original evidence

Keep original screenshots, messages, emails, photographs, recordings, police references, GP notes and school communications. Do not edit originals.

Step 3: Identify patterns

Use categories such as threats, isolation, financial control, child-related control, surveillance, humiliation, intimidation, litigation abuse, post-separation abuse and third-party manipulation.

Step 4: Record the impact

Do not only record what the other person did. Record how it affected ordinary life: sleep, work, parenting, school runs, money, safety planning, communication, contact handovers and mental health.

Step 5: Separate evidence from opinion

“He is controlling” is a conclusion. “Between 4 January and 9 March he sent 126 messages asking where I was, who I was with, and threatening to stop child maintenance if I did not reply” is evidence.

Step 6: Prepare a child impact section

Record what the children saw, heard or experienced, and how it affected them. Keep this child-focused and welfare-focused.

Step 7: Cross-reference everything

Every allegation should link to an exhibit where possible. The court should not have to hunt for the evidence.

Step 8: Ask for the right procedural directions

In family proceedings, consider whether the court needs to address domestic abuse allegations under Practice Direction 12J, whether a fact-finding hearing is required, and whether special measures or safeguarding directions are needed.

The digital evidence that may matter

Modern coercive control is often digital. It may be hidden in ordinary-looking messages, repeated demands, location monitoring, banking restrictions, online humiliation, password access, device surveillance or the use of parenting apps as a mechanism of control.

Relevant digital evidence may include:

  • WhatsApp messages;
  • SMS messages;
  • emails;
  • call logs;
  • voicemails;
  • social media messages;
  • banking alerts;
  • shared calendar entries;
  • location tracking records;
  • AirTag or device notifications;
  • parenting app communications;
  • school portal communications;
  • photographs of damage or written notes;
  • screenshots of deleted or edited messages where properly preserved;
  • police reference numbers;
  • 999 or 101 call records;
  • GP, counselling or domestic abuse service records.

The key is not volume. The key is relevance, organisation and pattern.

9: The difference between a pile of evidence and a case

A pile of evidence says: “Here are 400 screenshots.”

A prepared case says: “These 400 screenshots show a repeated pattern of surveillance, financial pressure, child-related threats and post-separation intimidation between January 2023 and May 2026. The most important examples are indexed at A1-A18. The serious effect is set out at paragraphs 42-56. The child impact is set out at paragraphs 57-68.”

That is the difference technology can help create.

What family courts need to understand

Family courts must stop treating coercive control as background noise.

If coercive control is proved, it may be directly relevant to:

  • the welfare checklist;
  • risk of harm;
  • the need for a fact-finding hearing;
  • interim contact arrangements;
  • safe handovers;
  • parenting apps and communication boundaries;
  • supervised or supported contact;
  • prohibited steps orders;
  • specific issue orders;
  • non-molestation orders;
  • occupation orders;
  • whether direct contact is safe;
  • whether a parent can prioritise the child’s welfare over control of the other parent.

A parent who controls, intimidates, monitors, threatens, degrades or destabilises the other parent may also be harming the child. The child does not need to be physically assaulted to be affected.

Why this matters for access to justice

Many victims and protective parents cannot afford a full legal team. Legal aid is limited. Direct access counsel can help, but barristers are often brought in late and need properly prepared papers. A barrister cannot magically turn years of disorganised evidence into a coherent case the night before a hearing.

This is why litigation support, document preparation and legal technology matter.

Litigants in person need practical help to:

  • understand the legal framework;
  • identify relevant evidence;
  • prepare chronologies;
  • structure statements;
  • prepare bundles;
  • brief direct access barristers properly;
  • avoid emotional overloading;
  • present child-focused, evidence-based arguments;
  • ask the court for appropriate directions.

The headline point

Coercive control is not too complex to prove.

It is too often presented using tools that are too narrow to reveal it.

Legal technology could help victims and protective parents show the court what the abuse actually is: not a list of isolated incidents, but a system of control.

What should change next?

If the justice system is serious about coercive control, then family courts, police, prosecutors, lawyers, McKenzie Friend services, domestic abuse organisations and legal technologists need to work from the same starting point:

The pattern is the evidence.

That means we need better tools for:

  • pattern-based chronologies;
  • domestic abuse evidence mapping;
  • child impact analysis;
  • post-separation abuse tracking;
  • technology-facilitated abuse identification;
  • safe digital evidence storage;
  • court-ready bundle preparation;
  • direct access barrister briefing;
  • litigant in person guidance.

We do not need technology that replaces legal judgment. We need technology that helps victims preserve, organise and present the truth.

Final word

Coercive control thrives in confusion. It thrives when incidents are separated from context. It thrives when victims are exhausted, disbelieved, priced out, procedurally overwhelmed and told they are “high conflict”.

But coercive control has structure.

It leaves traces.

It creates patterns.

It affects children.

It can be evidenced.

And if the family justice system is going to protect children and victims properly, it must become far better at seeing the whole picture.

Need help preparing a coercive control chronology or family court evidence bundle?

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We do not replace solicitors or barristers. We help litigants in person get organised, understand the process, and present their evidence clearly.

If you are dealing with coercive control, domestic abuse allegations, safeguarding issues or a complex child arrangements case, early preparation matters.

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Ontario’s Integrated Domestic Violence Court: Why the UK Should Be Watching

May 7, 2026/1 Comment/in 4. Domestic Abuse & Safeguarding Cluster, 6. Tools Templates Research & Cases, Coercive Control, Safeguarding Reform/by jessica susan hill

Ontario’s move toward an Integrated Domestic Violence Court should make England and Wales pay attention. Survivors of coercive control and domestic abuse do not experience criminal proceedings, family court, protection orders and child arrangements as separate realities. Yet our systems often force them to navigate exactly that. This article explores why integrated court models could be transformational for litigants in person and why the UK should now consider serious reform.

If the Harm Is Integrated, the Court Response Must Be Too

Ontario’s Integrated Domestic Violence Court model should make England and Wales ask a difficult question: why are survivors and litigants in person still being forced to join up fragmented criminal and family court systems themselves?

This article was prompted by a LinkedIn post shared by Trish Guise MSc, MBA, discussing Ontario’s move toward an Integrated Domestic Violence Court model. The post immediately stood out because the same fragmentation problem is visible in England and Wales, particularly for litigants in person trying to navigate family court where coercive control, post-separation abuse and criminal proceedings overlap.

Graphic from Halton Women’s Place stating that Ontario has changed how domestic violence cases are handled in court through an Integrated Domestic Violence Court model.
Image credit: Halton Women’s Place, citing Ontario Court of Justice, April 2026. Post seen via Trish Guise MSc, MBA on LinkedIn. Shared here for public-interest commentary on domestic abuse court reform and integrated family and criminal court responses.
Key Takeaways for Litigants in Person
  • Ontario is moving toward a more coordinated model for eligible domestic violence cases involving both criminal and family law issues.
  • Survivors of coercive control often experience the legal system as fragmented, repetitive and retraumatising.
  • Criminal proceedings, police evidence, bail conditions and family court decisions should not be treated as disconnected issues where risk overlaps.
  • Integrated court models may help judges see the full pattern of behaviour rather than isolated incidents.
  • England and Wales should consider whether a properly designed Integrated Domestic Abuse Court pilot could improve safety, evidence management and access to justice.

Ontario has just made a change that should make family justice reformers in England and Wales sit up and pay attention.

From 2 April 2026, certain criminal intimate partner violence cases in Toronto, where there are related family law proceedings, are being scheduled together in the Integrated Domestic Violence Court at 10 Armoury Street.

In practical terms, this means that eligible criminal domestic abuse cases and connected family law issues can be brought before one coordinated court process, with one judge case-managing the connected matters rather than survivors being forced to navigate fragmented proceedings in different places, with different professionals, different timetables, and sometimes completely different understandings of risk.

This matters.

It matters because survivors do not experience domestic abuse as a criminal file over here, a children case over there, a safeguarding concern somewhere else, and a protection issue sitting in another system altogether. They experience it as one lived reality. The legal system, however, often slices that reality into separate jurisdictions, separate applications, separate hearings, separate evidence bundles and separate narratives.

That fragmentation is not a minor administrative inconvenience. In coercive control cases, it can become part of the harm.

Credit and source note: This article was prompted by a LinkedIn post shared by Trish Guise MSc, MBA, Litigation Support & Expert Witness, whose work focuses on coercive control across family, civil and criminal law in Canada and internationally. The image referenced in this article was originally shared by Halton Women’s Place, citing the Ontario Court of Justice, April 2026.

This article is a UK-focused commentary on why the Ontario development matters for family justice reform in England and Wales, particularly for litigants in person dealing with coercive control, post-separation abuse and parallel criminal and family proceedings.

The Ontario Development: What Has Changed?

The Ontario Court of Justice has issued a Practice Direction confirming that, effective 2 April 2026, specified criminal intimate partner violence cases and related family law matters will be scheduled in the Integrated Domestic Violence Court in Toronto.

The key point is coordination. The model is designed for cases where there is both:

  • a criminal intimate partner violence case; and
  • a related family law matter involving issues under the relevant Ontario family law framework.

The Practice Direction is not a magic wand. It does not mean every domestic abuse case will be absorbed into one court. It does not mean all trials will be heard there. In fact, the Ontario direction makes clear that where there are triable issues under the Criminal Code, the Children’s Law Reform Act or the Family Law Act, the proceeding may be referred back to the originating court for trial.

The Integrated Domestic Violence Court is therefore best understood as a coordinated judicial case-management model for connected domestic abuse proceedings.

But even that is significant.

Because in domestic abuse cases, especially cases involving coercive control and post-separation abuse, judicial case management is not just about administrative efficiency. It is about pattern recognition. It is about risk. It is about whether the court understands the case as a whole, or whether it sees only disconnected fragments.

If the harm is integrated, the court response must be integrated too.

The Problem: Survivors Are Forced Through Fragmented Systems

In England and Wales, survivors of domestic abuse can find themselves dealing with several legal processes at the same time. For example:

  • a criminal investigation or prosecution;
  • bail conditions or restraining order issues;
  • private law children proceedings under the Children Act 1989;
  • non-molestation or occupation order proceedings;
  • social care involvement;
  • school or safeguarding concerns;
  • financial control, housing insecurity or immigration issues;
  • police disclosure requests in the family court;
  • Cafcass safeguarding checks and reports;
  • allegations of “parental alienation” or “implacable hostility” being raised in response to abuse allegations.

Each process may have its own language, threshold, burden of proof, timetable and culture. Criminal justice asks whether an offence can be proved. Family justice asks what arrangements are in the child’s welfare interests. Civil protective proceedings focus on risk and protection. Social care may focus on parenting capacity, child protection thresholds and safeguarding plans.

Those differences matter. But the problem is that the systems often do not communicate with each other properly.

The result is that survivors, many of whom are litigants in person, are left carrying the burden of joining up the evidence themselves. They are expected to explain the same history again and again. They are expected to remember dates, incidents, messages, patterns, threats, safeguarding reports, police logs, school issues and children’s reactions. They are expected to understand which evidence matters in which court. They are expected to know how to raise criminal bail conditions in family proceedings, how to ask for police disclosure, how to challenge a report, and how to frame coercive control as a pattern rather than a list of isolated incidents.

That is not access to justice. That is system navigation under trauma.

Fragmentation Minimises Coercive Control

Coercive control is not properly understood by looking at incidents in isolation. It is a pattern of domination, intimidation, restriction, surveillance, threat, punishment, manipulation and control. It often escalates after separation, precisely because the perpetrator has lost direct access to the victim.

In family court, that pattern can become dangerously blurred.

A survivor may describe years of control, intimidation and fear. The alleged perpetrator may present as calm, reasonable and child-focused. Professionals may see two parents in conflict and conclude that the case is “high conflict”. But “high conflict” and coercive control are not the same thing.

High conflict suggests mutual hostility. Coercive control involves a pattern of power, fear and domination.

That distinction matters because the wrong label leads to the wrong intervention.

If the court sees the case as mutual conflict, it may push for communication, co-parenting, mediation-style thinking, parental education, contact progression or “both parents need to move on” reasoning. If the court sees the case as coercive control, it should be asking different questions:

  • What is the history of power and control?
  • What happened during the relationship?
  • What changed after separation?
  • Has the family court process itself become a vehicle for continued control?
  • Are repeated applications, emails, allegations, disclosure demands or contact disputes being used as litigation abuse?
  • Are children being exposed directly or indirectly to fear, manipulation or emotional pressure?
  • Are professionals seeing the full pattern or only the latest application?

That is why integrated case management matters. Not because it solves everything, but because it creates a better chance that someone in the system is holding the whole picture.

The UK Already Knows There Is a Problem

This is not a new issue in England and Wales.

The Ministry of Justice’s 2020 Harm Report examined how the family courts respond to allegations of domestic abuse and other serious harm in private law children cases. The report identified serious structural issues, including the way domestic abuse can be minimised in private law proceedings. It also recognised the problem of silo working.

The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 gave England and Wales a statutory definition of domestic abuse that goes beyond physical violence and includes coercive or controlling behaviour, economic abuse, emotional abuse and psychological abuse. It also recognises children as victims of domestic abuse in their own right where they see, hear or experience the effects of abuse.

On paper, therefore, the legal framework has moved forward.

In practice, litigants in person still encounter a fragmented system.

That gap between legal recognition and courtroom reality is where much of the harm sits.

Pathfinder Is Not Enough If the System Remains Fragmented

The Pathfinder model, now being rolled out more widely under the language of “Child Focused Courts”, is an important development in private law children proceedings. It has been promoted as a less adversarial, more child-focused approach, with earlier information gathering and stronger attention to domestic abuse and safeguarding.

But Pathfinder is still primarily a family court reform.

It does not, on its own, solve the fragmentation between family court and criminal court. It does not automatically place criminal proceedings, police evidence, bail conditions, risk assessment, Cafcass safeguarding, domestic abuse support, children’s welfare, enforcement issues and litigation abuse before one coordinated judicial structure.

That is why the Ontario model is worth watching.

England and Wales should not simply copy and paste another jurisdiction’s approach. Our legal system is different. Our court structures are different. Our family and criminal jurisdictions operate differently. But the principle is directly relevant:

Where domestic abuse gives rise to linked criminal and family proceedings, the system should not require survivors and children to carry the burden of joining up the courts themselves.

Why This Matters So Much for Litigants in Person

For represented parties, fragmentation is difficult. For litigants in person, it can be devastating.

A solicitor can identify which court needs which document. A barrister can frame the relevance of criminal bail conditions to child arrangements. A legally trained advocate can explain why police disclosure is necessary before the court progresses contact. A specialist domestic abuse lawyer can challenge minimising language in a report. A professional can distinguish between isolated allegations and a pattern of coercive control.

A litigant in person is often expected to do all of that alone.

They may be traumatised. They may be frightened. They may be financially controlled. They may have children to protect. They may have no legal aid. They may be dealing with an alleged perpetrator who is calm, articulate and strategic. They may be accused of exaggerating, obstructing contact or failing to co-parent. They may be cross-referencing police incidents, WhatsApp messages, school concerns, GP notes, MARAC referrals, Cafcass safeguarding letters and court orders late at night, while trying to hold their life together.

That is the reality for many litigants in person.

And it is why system design matters.

A fragmented system favours the party with stamina, resources, confidence and procedural knowledge. In coercive control cases, that can mean the system unintentionally advantages the person already using process as power.

The Family Court Must Stop Treating Criminal Proceedings as Background Noise

One of the recurring problems in private law children proceedings is that criminal justice information is often treated as something separate, delayed or peripheral.

There may be an ongoing police investigation. There may be bail conditions. There may be a pending charging decision. There may be digital evidence. There may be body-worn camera footage, 999 calls, DASH risk assessments, officer notes, witness statements or admissions. But the family court timetable may continue moving.

In some cases, the family court is being asked to make decisions about children before the relevant criminal evidence has been obtained, understood or tested.

That is dangerous.

Not because every allegation is automatically proved. Not because the family court must wait indefinitely for the criminal process. Not because contact should be suspended forever simply because a criminal investigation exists.

But because risk cannot be properly assessed if the court refuses to look at the whole evidential landscape.

If a criminal case contains evidence relevant to coercive control, violence, threats, harassment, stalking, non-fatal strangulation, child exposure to abuse, breach of protective conditions or post-separation intimidation, that evidence may be directly relevant to welfare.

It is not background noise. It may be central.

The Same Judge Seeing the Whole Picture Is Not a Luxury

The idea of one judge seeing the connected picture is powerful because coercive control is cumulative.

A single judge who understands the linked family and criminal context is better placed to identify:

  • inconsistent orders between courts;
  • contact proposals that conflict with bail or protective conditions;
  • risk minimisation in professional reports;
  • litigation behaviour that mirrors the abuse pattern;
  • repeated applications used as pressure;
  • children being used as conduits for control;
  • attempts to reframe abuse as parental conflict;
  • whether professional intervention is reducing risk or simply moving the case along.

Domestic abuse cases require more than diary management. They require judicial memory. They require continuity. They require pattern recognition.

Too often, family court hearings are treated as isolated events. One judge deals with an urgent application. Another handles a directions hearing. Another hears a fact-finding issue. Another considers interim contact. Each judge sees part of the file. Each professional sees part of the picture. The survivor keeps having to start again.

That is not a trauma-informed system.

It is a system that repeatedly asks survivors to prove the same context to new people.

Coordination Alone Is Not Enough

There is an important caution here.

An integrated domestic abuse court is only as good as the understanding of the professionals within it.

If judges, lawyers, Cafcass officers, court staff, domestic abuse workers and liaison professionals do not understand coercive control, integration will not be enough. A coordinated court that still mislabels coercive control as conflict will simply process the wrong analysis more efficiently.

That is why any UK model must include specialist training in:

  • coercive and controlling behaviour;
  • post-separation abuse;
  • litigation abuse;
  • economic abuse;
  • trauma presentation;
  • risk assessment;
  • child impact;
  • perpetrator tactics;
  • how abuse can be disguised as concern, reasonableness or child-focused litigation;
  • the difference between conflict and coercive control;
  • the limits of unsupported “parental alienation” narratives where abuse is alleged;
  • how to scrutinise professional reports properly.

This cannot be tokenistic training. It cannot be a one-hour webinar and a laminated checklist. Coercive control is sophisticated. Perpetrators can be sophisticated. Court misuse can be sophisticated. The professional response must be equally sophisticated.

What a UK Integrated Domestic Abuse Court Model Could Look Like

A serious model for England and Wales would need more than branding. It would need structure.

At minimum, a proper integrated domestic abuse court pilot should consider the following features:

1. Linked Family and Criminal Case Identification

There should be a clear mechanism for identifying where parties have connected family and criminal proceedings. This should not depend solely on a distressed litigant in person telling each court what is happening elsewhere.

2. Judicial Continuity

Where domestic abuse and coercive control are alleged, judicial continuity should be treated as a safeguarding feature, not an administrative preference. The same judge, or a small specialist judicial team, should manage the linked proceedings where possible.

3. Domestic Abuse Liaison Support

The court should include trained domestic abuse liaison professionals who understand both court process and survivor safety. Their role should include signposting, safety planning, procedural navigation and coordination with community support services.

4. Early Evidence Mapping

At the start of the case, the court should identify what evidence exists across the systems: police logs, body-worn footage, bail conditions, MARAC information, GP records, school safeguarding material, social care documents, Cafcass safeguarding checks and digital communications.

5. Proper Police Disclosure Pathways

Police disclosure in family proceedings is often slow, inconsistent and poorly understood. A specialist integrated model should have clear disclosure pathways and realistic timetables so that family court decisions are not made in an evidential vacuum.

6. Specialist Risk Assessment

Risk should not be assessed merely by asking whether there has been a recent incident. Coercive control risk is often embedded in patterns: escalation, separation, threats, stalking, harassment, legal intimidation, financial pressure, child contact demands and breach behaviour.

7. Scrutiny of Reports

Cafcass, local authority and expert reports must be properly scrutinised. Reports should not be accepted simply because they carry professional letterhead. The court should ask whether the report writer has understood coercive control, whether they have considered the full evidence, whether they have minimised risk, and whether their recommendations are safe.

8. LiP-Friendly Procedure

If the model is not usable by litigants in person, it will fail the very people who need it most. Orders must be clear. Directions must be practical. Evidence requirements must be explained. Safety measures must be proactive. The court must not assume that a survivor can navigate multi-track proceedings alone.

9. No Automatic Push to Contact Progression

In domestic abuse cases, contact should not be progressed simply because time has passed or because the court wants momentum. Progression must be tied to safety, insight, accountability, child welfare and evidence.

10. Accountability and Data

A UK pilot must publish meaningful data. Not just speed. Not just disposal rates. Not just how quickly cases conclude. The court must measure safety, recurrence, breach, survivor experience, child outcomes, re-litigation and whether allegations of domestic abuse were properly identified and addressed.

Speed Is Not the Same as Justice

This point matters.

There is a real risk that court reform becomes obsessed with speed. Faster hearings. Faster reports. Faster disposal. Faster case closure.

But a fast unsafe decision is not justice.

For survivors and children, the question is not simply “how quickly was the case resolved?” The question is:

  • Was the risk understood?
  • Was the evidence properly gathered?
  • Was coercive control recognised?
  • Were children protected?
  • Was the survivor heard without being retraumatised?
  • Did the court prevent litigation abuse?
  • Were orders safe, clear and enforceable?

Pathfinder and Child Focused Courts will be judged not by branding, but by outcomes. If cases conclude faster but unsafe contact is ordered, risk is minimised, evidence is not properly tested, and survivors are left feeling steamrolled, then the reform will not have solved the problem.

It will simply have made the machinery move faster.

Why England and Wales Need More Ambition

The family justice system in England and Wales is currently trying to reform itself while still operating inside deeply fragmented structures. That is the difficulty.

We have domestic abuse legislation recognising coercive control. We have PD12J in private law children cases. We have Pathfinder reform. We have increased public discussion about post-separation abuse. We have growing criticism of parental alienation arguments being used to obscure domestic abuse. We have more awareness of litigation abuse.

But awareness is not enough.

The court structure itself must change.

It is not reasonable to expect litigants in person to coordinate the criminal court, family court, police disclosure, safeguarding evidence, Cafcass reports, domestic abuse support and children’s welfare issues while also trying to survive the abuse itself.

That is the work of a system. It should not be pushed onto the shoulders of the survivor.

What Ontario Gets Right in Principle

Ontario’s model is not perfect. It has eligibility limits. It is geographically specific. It does not hear all trials. It does not cover every type of family law case. It will need proper evaluation.

But the principle is right.

The principle is that connected domestic abuse proceedings should be seen as connected.

The principle is that survivors should not be sent from one process to another as though each hearing exists in a vacuum.

The principle is that one judge seeing the full picture may reduce inconsistency, duplication, retraumatisation and risk.

The principle is that domestic abuse is not just a collection of incidents. It is a pattern. And a pattern cannot be properly understood if the system only looks at pieces.

The UK Should Pilot Proper Integrated Domestic Abuse Courts

England and Wales should now be looking seriously at a properly designed Integrated Domestic Abuse Court pilot.

Not merely a renamed family court process.

Not merely a faster case management pathway.

Not merely a domestic abuse “flag” on a file.

A genuinely integrated model should bring together the criminal and family dimensions of domestic abuse where proceedings are connected. It should include specialist judicial continuity, domestic abuse liaison, police disclosure pathways, evidence mapping, safeguarding oversight, proper report scrutiny and LiP-friendly procedural design.

It should be built around the lived reality of coercive control, not around the convenience of court silos.

For Litigants in Person, This Could Be Transformational

For represented parties, integrated domestic abuse courts would improve coordination.

For litigants in person, they could be transformational.

They could mean fewer repeated hearings. Fewer inconsistent orders. Less need to explain the same abuse history to different professionals. Better understanding of bail conditions and protective measures. Better scrutiny of contact proposals. Better recognition of litigation abuse. Better identification of coercive control as a pattern. Better protection for children.

Most importantly, they could shift the burden of coordination away from survivors and onto the justice system where it belongs.

That is the real issue.

Litigants in person do not need more slogans about access to justice. They need a system that is actually designed for the reality they are living through.

Related Reading

You may also find our related article on coercive control, family court and post-separation abuse helpful if you are trying to understand how abuse can continue through litigation after separation.

Useful External Sources

  • Ontario Court of Justice Practice Direction: Integrated Domestic Violence Court
  • Ministry of Justice: Assessing Risk of Harm to Children and Parents in Private Law Children Cases
  • Domestic Abuse Act 2021
  • Practice Direction 12J: Child Arrangements and Contact Orders where Domestic Abuse is Alleged

Final Thought

Ontario’s Integrated Domestic Violence Court development should be watched closely by anyone concerned with family justice reform in England and Wales.

It is not the whole answer. But it points in the right direction.

Domestic abuse cases do not sit neatly inside one legal box. Coercive control does not stop at the boundary between criminal and family law. Post-separation abuse often moves through the very systems that are supposed to protect survivors and children.

If the harm is integrated, the court response must be integrated too.

Until England and Wales confront that reality, litigants in person will continue to be left doing the work that the system itself should be doing: joining the dots, explaining the pattern, chasing the evidence, managing the risk and trying to protect their children while navigating a fragmented court process alone.

That is not good enough.

Ontario has taken a step that recognises the problem. The UK should be brave enough to do the same.

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When Coercive Control Leads to Conviction — Why Sentencing Still Falls Short

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A recent coercive control conviction in Surrey resulted in a sentence of just over two years’ imprisonment

— meaning likely release at the halfway point. While convictions under section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015 remain relatively rare, sentencing often fails to reflect the cumulative psychological harm caused by years of domination, isolation and fear. This article explores why short custodial sentences may not equate to reduced risk, and why coercive control remains highly relevant in Family Court proceedings under the Children Act 1989 and Practice Direction 12J. A criminal conviction does not automatically resolve safeguarding concerns in private children cases. Understanding the difference between punishment and ongoing risk is essential for litigants in person navigating contact disputes after domestic abuse.

When Coercive Control Leads to Conviction — Why Sentencing Still Falls Short

Category: Domestic Abuse & Family Court  |  Commentary & Legal Analysis (England & Wales)

Key takeaways

  • Coercive and controlling behaviour is a criminal offence under s.76 Serious Crime Act 2015.
  • Convictions remain comparatively rare relative to reported cases.
  • Custodial sentences of around two years typically result in release at the halfway point.
  • Short sentences do not necessarily reflect cumulative psychological harm.
  • In Family Court proceedings, domestic abuse remains relevant under Children Act 1989 and Practice Direction 12J, even after criminal sentencing.

A Rare Conviction in Surrey

Recently, a man in Surrey was sentenced to just over two years’ imprisonment for coercive and controlling behaviour, strangulation and criminal damage against his former partner.

Under standard sentencing rules, that typically means release at the halfway point. In practical terms, just over a year in custody.

The case was described as a rare conviction in a county where reportedly only around 7% of recorded coercive control cases result in charge. That statistic speaks to the evidential and structural difficulty of prosecuting patterns of abuse.

What Is Coercive Control?

The offence of controlling or coercive behaviour was introduced under section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015.

It criminalises a pattern of behaviour which may include:

  • Isolation from support networks
  • Monitoring or regulating daily life
  • Control of finances
  • Threats and intimidation
  • Undermining autonomy
  • Creating psychological dependency

This offence is not about one argument or one assault. It recognises the architecture of domination.

Strangulation, threats and criminal damage are often symptoms of a deeper system of entitlement and control.

The Sentencing Problem

When custodial sentences are limited to two years (or less), several realities follow:

  • Automatic release at halfway point
  • Limited structured behavioural intervention
  • No guarantee of insight or change
  • Minimal long-term deterrent effect

Coercive control is cumulative. It rewires perception, fear responses and dependency. A short custodial sentence does not dismantle the belief system that enabled the abuse.

On paper, the system records: Convicted. Sentence passed. Case closed.

For many families, it is not closed.

Why This Matters in the Family Court

In private law children proceedings under the Children Act 1989, the court’s paramount consideration is welfare.

Where domestic abuse is raised, the court must apply the safeguarding framework in Practice Direction 12J.

A short custodial sentence can sometimes be interpreted as:

  • “Punishment served”
  • “Matter concluded”
  • “Historic behaviour”

That interpretation risks oversimplification.

Coercive control affects:

  • A parent’s capacity to support safe contact
  • A child’s emotional regulation
  • The survivor’s ability to co-parent
  • Ongoing litigation dynamics

Even where contact is ordered, history informs structure. Supervision, indirect contact, parallel parenting models, and clear boundaries may be necessary.

The Reality Survivors Face

After criminal proceedings conclude, some survivors report:

  • Litigation as continuation of control
  • Repeated procedural applications
  • Financial strain
  • Reputational attacks
  • Manipulation through child arrangements

The abuse may shift from private to procedural.

Without proper identification and management, Family Court can unintentionally become another arena for coercive dynamics.

What We Do at JSH Law

We support litigants in person navigating private children proceedings where domestic abuse forms part of the history.

Our role is structured and evidence-led. We:

  • Identify coercive patterns clearly and lawfully
  • Structure chronologies effectively
  • Apply the correct statutory framework
  • Prepare safeguarding-focused position statements
  • Separate emotional narrative from legal analysis

These cases require precision. They require clarity about the difference between a past conviction and ongoing risk.

A Forward-Looking Perspective

Awareness of coercive control has improved significantly over the last decade. The creation of the offence under the Serious Crime Act 2015 marked progress.

But charging rates and sentencing outcomes demonstrate that recognition and resolution are not the same.

True safeguarding requires:

  • Recognition of cumulative harm
  • Structured judicial analysis
  • Evidence-led advocacy
  • Clear litigation boundaries

If You Are Navigating Something Similar

  • Do not assume the criminal conviction “speaks for itself”.
  • Do not assume short custody equals reduced risk.
  • Do not assume the Family Court understands the pattern without structured explanation.

Arm yourself with knowledge. Structure your evidence. Approach proceedings strategically rather than reactively.

It is not simply “over” because an order has been made.


Contact JSH Law

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JSH Law provides litigation support services to litigants in person, including strategic guidance, document preparation assistance and hearing support. JSH Law is not a firm of solicitors and does not conduct litigation or provide reserved legal activities.

Where reference is made to legislation or public material, such references are for informational purposes only. If you require urgent assistance in relation to domestic abuse, contact the police on 999 in an emergency or seek specialist support services.

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Authorities Used

– Family Procedure Rules 2010, SI 2010/2955 (U.K.), rr. 1.1, 1.3, pts. 3, 6, 17, 22, 25, 9.
– Practice Direction 3A (MIAM).
– Practice Direction 12B (Child Arrangements Programme).
– Practice Direction 12J (Domestic Abuse and Harm).
– Practice Direction 22A (Evidence).
– Practice Direction 27A (Court Bundles).
– Children Act 1989, c. 41 (U.K.)

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  • Preparing a Chronology the Court Can Follow

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